I've talked about what I call “normal marriage hatred” in dozens of lectures throughout my career. Not once have I been asked to clarify what I meant. We've all experienced it – that little voice in our heads that has nothing nice to say about our partners. I'm here to tell you that it's okay, and you're not a bad person for hearing it. My latest YouTube video is all about why – subscribe to the channel now: https://www.youtube.com/@realterryreal #Relationships #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Ter
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